- Show Him Respect
Make sure your husband knows that he is your number one, even if you don’t feel like he is always respectful to you. Don’t degrade him in front of his family or friends. Always be respectful of how he feels about something even if you might not agree.
Make sure that he knows that you respect him, even if you don’t say it to his face all of the time. Men want to know that they are respected, and much of their unhappiness and anger comes from feeling like they are being disrespected by someone else.
Show Interest in His Hobbies
This doesn’t mean you have to be with him every time he plays basketball with his buddies. More so, be aware of the things he likes. If he really likes to hunt, subscribe to a hunting magazine that he likes or buy him a piece of gear that you know he’s had his eye on. Being interested does not all ways have to mean being fully involved.
Give him enough space so that can enjoy his hobbies. That does not mean you have to take up the same hobbies as him: if he wants to go rock out on guitar in the garage, let him go ahead and do it.
Have Consistent Sex
This may seem like an obvious statement, but very important. I’m not just saying have sex a couple of times a week. Be totally invested in the act as much as possible. Sex is a very important and essential act to men. Show him you love him by loving on him. Get into the act and set your insecurities aside. This is the man you said your vows to and are going to spend the rest of your life with. Explore each other’s bodies and have fun. Try to initiate sex some of the time as that will spice things up and make your husband even more excited for some fun in bed.
Of course, if you feel uncomfortable about something, let him know about it. Your husband wants you to be happy and comfortable as well.
- Do Something Unexpected
Stop by the grocery store or bakery on your way home and pick up his favorite treat. Book a weekend away together. Give him a massage when he gets home. It’s not always the job of a man to do these kinds of things. As a dedicated wife, you must surprise your husband and remind him of the fun woman he fell in love with. Believe me; he will appreciate the gesture and be thrilled that you did something so thoughtful.