HOW TO KNOW THE RELATIONSHIP IS DYING
Firstly, the word relationship signifies how we relate with people. Whenever people hear the word “relationship” they think about having or showing feelings for the people of the opposite gender. But there is more to it actually. You can have a relationship with your boyfriend, girlfriend, sister, brother, mother, father, friend, whoever it is.it depends if it is a good or bad relationship. Relationship signifies, how much or how less we relate, hang out or deal with someone, how much or how less you feel for them. Now, we all know nothing is perfect and not everything lasts or not everything must work out. It doesn’t matter if it works out, what matters is that you have found out that you deserve better and that you have moved on from it. So below are some of the ways to identify a relationship that is moving downhill or isn’t good for you.
1. No More Spark:
Normally when the relationship sets off in the beginning, it is all smiles and shines, but with time, things change, you no longer feel that happy with them. You no longer feel thrilled to be with them. At times, most of what they use to do isn’t as fun as it used to be. You prefer to be alone rather than being with them. You see hanging out with them some kind of stress.
2. So Much Fight:
This is a major alarm bell, when both of you fight and quarrel over everything. You both disagree on everything; you never want to support each other. Things go crazy between both of you like all the time. Yes, there may be minor issues in a relationship. Like we said earlier, no relationship is perfect. There are lots of relationships with lots of ups and downs, lots of happiness and sadness, but they shouldn’t be a daily or frequent occurrence. If it happens always then my dear, that relationship isn’t good for you at all.
3. You Feel Lonely:
A relationship is supposed to provide you with company; it is supposed to make you feel loved, cared for, and not lonely. If you are in a relationship and you still feel lonely, that is not right at all. Maybe that’s a sign that it is not working out, or won’t ever work out.
So guys, if those signs mentioned features in your relationship with anyone at all. Then you should ponder on this: “what if it is a sign that you need someone better?” in life, it is what you want that you get. If you just sit back and gladly take whatever comes your way, you may never find true happiness. Take a stand for yourself and go for what you want. If that relationship is not want you want then quit it and move on. Though it may be hard but it will be worth it. Do not accept less of whatever you go for in life. You deserve better, no matter what.