HOW TO KNOW HE IS NO LONGER INTO YOU
Being heartbroken is like a daily occurrence now, people get heartbroken, but if you find out or get the signals before it happens, you may still feel hurt but it will hurt lesser. People fall in and out of love. At first they see you as their all and all but with time they think you aren’t that special anymore, so they move on to the next person that catches their heart or attention. And that leaves you heartbroken; but to make this bearable, to make the pain of being left behind tolerable, you need to figure or, fish out those little signals and signs your guy shows you to let you know that he is no longer into you. Below are some of the signs to let you know:
1. He no longer listens to you:
If someone loves you, he should be able to pay maximum attention to you. No matter what he is doing, he should be able to give s listening ear to you. So if you talk to him and he barely pays attention to you that is a sign that he doesn’t really care about you or what you want to say.
2. He doesn’t pay attention:
Okay, this is easy to spot, when he is always on the phone with someone else or always has something he is doing when you are with him, instead of focusing on you. He is either on his phone or laptop and deliberately ignores you despite your efforts to get noticed. Then maybe, he is indicating that he doesn’t want you around or doesn’t want you at all.
3. When he becomes secretive:
Though no one likes his or her privacy being evaded but when a guy isn’t into you anymore, chances are that he is with or into someone else. So, when that is the case, he will get very secretive, he will make sure you don’t get close to his phones, laptops, his devices, he leaves to pick his calls, doesn’t let you use his devices, so you don’t see anything complicating that will cause you to think, that is if he is a kind person.
4. He barely calls you:
This should be the first thing on the list but I am going according to my research. A guy who loves or is into you should be able to call you like two to three times in a day, if not for anything, but to hear your voice. If he barely calls, maybe he calls but it is when he need you to do him a favour; then ALARM BELL!!! He is not into you. It is simple so dear ladies out there, we should know by now that most guys really don’t like saying things, maybe in order not to upset you.
So these small clues, signs and signals are what you should look out for, and when you see them put the bits and pieces together, if you can’t fix the issue with him, then girl, it is time to move on. There is someone out there who will give you exactly what you deserve.